Judge Attitude, Not the People !

People are different, So do their Attitude !!

The above picture will do its part :) So now you have got an idea what this post is about...

We all have that one person who always believe us, no matter what happens.

We all have that one person whom we believe always, no matter what happens.

We all have that one person, who always envy about our growth.

Now that you will realize that, when reading the above, some people would have flashed in your memory at least for a second... :) 

There is a saying, 

"The most memorable people in your life will be the one who loved you when you weren't lovable"

Yes, it is true..  
Those who loves us stay in our heart forever. 
Those whom we love, we stay in their heart forever :-D
Still it doesn't meant, that the person has to stay with us, only the memories do their part.

People who fall on category 1 -  "who helped you in difficult times"
The people who stands by you, doesn't mean that they don't have anyone else, But they know the pain of standing alone at hard times...

There is a Quote, "Hard times will always reveal true friends"
"Helping" is one of the factor for anyone to be a "True Friend", which means there are some expectations from a person to be a Good friend. (More or less it is a Selfish thing :-P)

It is your life, difficulties must be faced by yourself, not by others. 

Though you don't expect anything, if your friends are still there for you, then that is what called as "True Friendship"...

People who fall on category 2 -  "who left you in difficult times"
Those people who left you are not meant to be in your life, they have their own difficult times to face, not yours...

We face so many people in life. As we have a life, others also do have their own.
It is easy to understand a person and come to conclusion about them.
But it is very difficult to understand a person's background and judge their attitude accordingly. It not only takes observance but also takes lot of time.

We can obviously say that how a person will react to a situation, but we cannot say the reason "why do they react so".
Because, for the same situation we ourselves would have taken different reaction at different times. When we are not sure about our self, who are we to comment on others...

I know a person who have an attitude of "We shouldn't give money & encourage beggars"
I had a different impression on that person, as I also have the same thought :P
But one day I got to know the reason why that person thinks so, which made me to change the impression on that person.

Here is the reason, for those who asks for money he wont give money, for those who ask for food he immediately buy something to eat & give them.

That day made me to "Judge Attitude not people !"


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*--Happily blogging--*
MSA